Better Sex Secrets Online

Sex is not natural.

Well, certain aspects of sex are natural – reproductive sex is natural. Put the right body parts in close proximity and most people can fumble around enough to get the bits to function, at least well enough to procreate. But that doesn’t make it good.

Good sex is not natural.

Sex that is immensely pleasurable, intensely intimate, highly erotic, that leads to personal transcendence and ecstatic states of bliss, sex that is uniquely human - that doesn’t come naturally. That is far more than a physical joining of genitalia. To have the kind of sex that humans are ultimately capable of involves the physical and the mental and emotional and even the spiritual.

Good sex is learned.

Good sex is an Art.

Like any art, the Fine Art of Sex takes understanding and practice to master.

Let’s look at an analogy with food. Eating is natural, it’s a natural instinct that keeps us alive, and most people can fumble around enough to be able to prepare food that’s edible and sustains them. Sure, make some toast, boil an egg, order take-out from McDonald’s, anyone can do that. But to make a gourmet feast, that’s another story. To reach full culinary potential requires dedication, learning, practice and desire.

Fortunately for cooks, there are plenty of books and courses available to develop their skills in the culinary arts. But there’s not a lot of material available in the modern western world to help people master the Art of Sex. It takes more than learning a few top tips, using the latest sex toy or trying out a new and clever move. That kind of advice is icing on the cake. That would be like teaching cooks how to ice the cake before they learn how to make the cake.

We need information on how to make the cake, not just ice it. We need information on how to master the ART of SEX.

Do you agree? Or not?

Stay Tuned for Myth #3

Wishing You Better Sex

Jacqueline Hellyer

World Renowned Holistic Sex Coach

For information on the PreLaunch of my new book see
www.sex-secrets-for-busy-people.com

Check my You Tube video for the interview I did on Mismatched Libidos
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pp5lEqkZIik

Women have far greater sexual potential than men. Not only that, a man can only reach his sexual potential by bringing the woman to hers.

What do I mean by ‘sexual potential’? I mean outrageously mind-blowing sex.

The trouble is, not many women reach their potential, or even get close. Most women don’t even have any idea what their potential is. Men have even less idea, and even if they did, they’d have no idea how to get her there. (Not that it’s up to him to get her there, a women who’s tuned into her sexuality knows that it’s up to her to work with him to get herself there.)

Women are made for sex, women’s bodies are designed to generate the most extraordinary levels of pleasure - for her, and through her, for him.

Consider the clitoris. This delightful little organ has no purpose whatsoever other than to provide exquisite pleasure. And it has twice as many nerve endings as in the head of the penis.

That reminds me of a joke where God’s putting the finishing touches to Adam and Eve. He calls them over and says:

“Adam, Eve, you’re nearly done. I have just two more items left to give you, but only one of each, so you’ll have to choose. OK?”

They nod, OK.

“Right then. The first is the ability to pee standing up.”

Adam shoots up his hand excitedly, and cries out:

“Yes, yes, me, me, that sounds cool, I’ll have that one!”

“Fine,” says God, “here you are Adam, you and your male descendents now have the ability to pee standing up. So Eve, you get the multiple orgasms.

“Yep, unlike men, women can have multiple orgasms. In fact we can have a whole variety of orgasms – clitoral, g-spot, deep vaginal, and those are just the genital orgasms. Women can also have orgasms from non-genital stimulation – nipples, neck, toes, just to mention a few other delicious body parts – and even from fantasy alone.Women can stay at a very high level of arousal for a very long time. They can enjoy that ride alone, or stud it with numerous orgasms, or have one long, long orgasm that lasts and lasts. Unlike men, who tend to reach a certain level of arousal, have one orgasmic peak and then it’s all over. (It doesn’t have to be like that – but that’s another story.) Masters and Johnson, the famous sex researchers, said that “Women have an infinitely greater capacity for sexual response than a man ever dreamed of.

“I don’t know about you, but I’m convinced that God is female, or at least that S/He wants women to have lots of really extraordinary sex.

Do you agree? Or not?

Stay tuned for Myth #2

Wishing you Better Sex

Jacqueline Hellyer

World Renowned Holistic Sex coach

For information on the PreLaunch of my new book see
www.sex-secrets-for-busy-people.com

Check my You Tube video for the interview I did on Mismatched Libidos
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pp5lEqkZIik